Handcuffs and Twisted Necklaces

When you start to get close to people then they start attaching themselves to yourself and your heart . Or in how i want to put it through like a handcuff around your wrist. it doesn't start like that it starts out as string.. easy to detach yourself from.the more time money energy and everything spent on the person , the harder and tighter it gets on you. it becomes harder when you've known the person a long time are really close and spend a lot of time together if it has to break , it is harder to detach yourself from . A thing is to make sure of the person you're letting yourself get attached too .. and want to make sure that they are attached to you as well before the attachment goes too far. And for the main attachment marriage is the hardest because you are closer then . it is real, tight handcuffs practically to the other person for life. and to have to break that apart would be really hard probably on both people. so I definitely want to make sure of the person I am getting married too.

Another random analogy i've had in my head is what I want to do.most people know i want to be a christian counselor but i really want to help some people understand what I want to do. I've just had crud in my life and i know it's hard to get past. Things get complicated. I picture some peoples lives as necklaces that have gotten twisted.. i can't save them but i hope to help them get untangled. They need to do work too if a necklace won't move or is stubborn that doesn't help. Just a picture in my mind i've had in my mind .. Praying it will work out.